Step #1 Mix the pudding & milk according to the directions on the package & put in the regrigerator while doing the next step(remember use the 3 c of milk even if the package says differently).
Step #2 Soften the cream cheese & mix it with the confectioners sugar.
Step #3 Add pudding mixture & mix untill mixd.
Step #4 Mix in cool whip.
Step #5 Refrigerate untill you are ready to serve.