Here we go again

Here we go again

• sexyhotmama 15 years ago
  That mystic river is NUTSO!!!
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• sexyhotmama 15 years ago said:
  Go to her cornbread crusted strawberry rhubarb cobbler recipe!! All i did was ask an innocent question and she went ballistic!
  
  YOU NEED HELP!!
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• pleclare 15 years ago said:
  The woman is certifiable!
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• pleclare 15 years ago said:
  I saw the reply and there was no reason for that!. It was only a matter of time.
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• sexyhotmama 15 years ago said:
  And she keeps on pming me !! She dared me to report her to Kris...ISSUES!!!!!
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• sexyhotmama 15 years ago said:
  Here is the whole thing so far!!
  
  sexyhotmama
  1 day, 11 hours ago said:
  DIVINE!!! love this recipe!! who is that guy in the pic with you and why does he look familiar to me? btw, you are very pretty
  
  
  Tuesday May 13 From: mystic_river1
  Date: 17 hours, 44 minutes ago
  Subject: why would
  
  
  you want to know that information?
  
  That pic is very special to me..never should have put it here on this site.
  
  you ask me why does he look familiar to you? I don't know you so how should I know and he is not just some guy.
  
  But the big question is WHY would you want to know?
  
  
  
  WHAT IS YOUR PROBLEM?!!!!!! I just said he looks familiar. What information are you talking about??!! DO NOT MAIL ME AGAIN WACK JOB!!!!
  
  
  
  
  
  
  
  Tuesday May 13 From: mystic_river1
  Date: 3 hours, 19 minutes ago
  Subject: RE:RE:why would
  
  
  I do not live in a trailer...you are a misinformed , very rude, childish person who only know how to accuse and call names and if you are a professional, you don't act like one. Your opinion of me, on a scale of 1-10 means -10 to me so it would behoove you to keep it to yourself.
  
  You posted your naked picture and then got bent out of shape when eeks criticized you...paranoia, you think? You had published it Publicly.
  
  I was not raised by wolves but by 2 of the sweetest people God ever put on this earth.
  
  Now, why don't you leave me alone and take care of your own business.Thank you.
  Go back to your inbox
  
  
  
  
  
  Posing nude is not synonymous to being a hooker which is what eeks accused me of being so yes I was upset. Your comparison is not valid!! so be behooved yourself!!!
  
  You yourself said in check-in that you live in a trailer and that you were afraid it would get blown away by some terrible storms/hurricanes. So in addition to being Crazy you are also a liar!
  
  You were the one who came to bother me crazylady! All i did was post a nice comment about your recipe, compliment you and ask an innocent question about a guy in picture you posted.
  
  If you Pm me again I will report you to Kris!! Thank you
  
  
  
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• momto4 15 years ago said:
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• sexyhotmama 15 years ago said:
  When the problem is Munchausen's
  A young woman seeks treatment for one condition but won't accept help for a different diagnosis.
  By Sandeep Jauhar, Special to The Times
  April 14, 2008
  The patient, in her early 20s, had red hair, pretty features and a disarming sincerity. When I first met her in the cardiac care unit, she told me that she had been on a flight from Helsinki, Finland, to Detroit, where her grandmother lived, when she developed palpitations and dizziness. Finding her pale and sweaty, a flight attendant had taken her to the back of the plane to lie down. The plane's automatic external defibrillator, she said, had revealed a potentially life-threatening arrhythmia.
  
  When the plane landed at LaGuardia Airport for a short layover, the patient said, she hailed a taxi and asked the driver to take her to the nearest hospital. The airline had arranged for an ambulance, she said, but she had refused it. "They wanted three paramedics in the ambulance instead of two," she explained. "I don't have that kind of money." I told her that given the nature of the emergency, she would not have been responsible for the charges. "See, I didn't know that," she replied matter-of-factly.
  
  She went to Flushing Hospital Medical Center because that is where the taxi driver took his own family when they were sick. Doctors there, after hearing her history, inserted a central intravenous line below her collarbone. They gave her some heart-stabilizing medications, monitored her for several hours and then transferred her to my hospital for further evaluation.
  
  I asked about her medical history. She told me that her family suffered from an unknown blood disorder that caused premature heart attacks. Her mother had died at age 33. Three maternal uncles had died in their 30s and 40s. Her cousins were all dead. The first, Sarah, died at age 18. Sarah's brother died at age 22. John, Josh and Matthew all died in their 20s. Apart from her grandmother, my patient was the last one in her immediate family who was still alive.
  
  I inquired about the medical work-up in Finland. She told me she had had a heart attack in her early 20s, necessitating angioplasty of a major coronary artery. She couldn't recall whether she had ever undergone an electrophysiology study. When I asked for permission to obtain medical records from hospitals in Helsinki, she refused. "There are confidentiality issues," she explained.
  
  I performed a physical exam. Her blood pressure was 120/80: normal. Her lungs sounded clear, and her heartbeat was regular and normal. I noticed a long scar along the right side of her back, where, she told me, she had previously had lung surgery. "A blood clot was choking off part of my lung," she explained, another consequence of the blood disorder.
  
  An EKG and an echocardiogram were performed: both normal. Continuous EKG monitoring was normal. Routine blood tests revealed nothing unusual. Though she said she had been taking digitalis, the drug was undetectable in her blood.
  
  I asked if there were family members I could talk to. There were some distant relations in Finland, but she didn't want me to contact them. The same went for her fiancé in Washington, D.C., who had weathered "enough stress" due to her many hospitalizations. There was a phone number for her grandmother in the front of the chart, but she insisted that no one from the cardiac care unit team call her. "She buried nine children!" the young woman cried. "She has suffered enough."
  
  Because of the central line in her chest, my patient had been requesting painkillers, mostly morphine, around the clock. She had also been complaining of nausea but had refused to take Zofran, the usual anti-emetic, requesting promethazine instead, which accentuates the effect of morphine. "It's classic drug-seeking behavior," a nurse in the cardiac care unit told me.
  
  The young woman remained in the care unit while the medical team tried to figure out what to do. That evening, her grandmother phoned the on-call resident, who had left a voice mail for her earlier in the day. "Oh, the old clotting disorder story again," the grandmother said. She explained that her granddaughter had used this story many times before to get hospitalized.
  
  I felt sorry for my patient -- but also angry at the lie. When I told her that we would no longer give her narcotics, she demanded to be discharged immediately. The team tried to get her to stay so that they could piece together the whole story, but she left about an hour later, after the central line had been removed from her chest. "People don't know what it's like to lose your whole family, your mother, your cousins, and then be the last one and have to keep on living," she said on her way out.
  
  Deception by patients assumes many different guises. One is what the diagnostic bible of psychiatry calls malingering: "the intentional production of false or grossly exaggerated physical or psychiatric symptoms" motivated by the desire to avoid work, evade prosecution, obtain drugs and so on. I believe my patient was suffering from a different disorder, called Munchausen syndrome. In this syndrome, patients will often intentionally produce or distort symptoms because of a need to be seen as ill or injured. They will undergo painful tests or diagnostic procedures if necessary to maintain the lie.
  
  Named after Baron Munchausen, a German military officer in the 18th century who was known for telling tall tales, Munchausen syndrome most often affects young adults and usually involves physical symptoms, such as chest pain, stomach problems or fever. Diagnostic clues include dramatic but inconsistent medical history; eagerness to undergo medical tests, operations or other procedures; history of seeking treatment at numerous hospitals; and reluctance by the patient to allow doctors to meet with or talk to family, friends or prior healthcare providers.
  
  Although a person with Munchausen syndrome actively seeks treatment for the various disorders he or she invents, the person often is unwilling to admit to and seek treatment for the syndrome itself. The outlook for recovery is usually poor.
  
  "There's nothing you can really do in these situations," Dr. Alberto Goldwaser, a forensic psychiatrist at NYU Medical Center, told me. "We need acknowledgment from a patient that something is wrong to make them better. Patients with Munchausen don't have that insight."
  
  He added that despite the proliferation of psychiatric medications, drug therapy is usually ineffective. "There are many diseases in psychiatry motivated by unconscious conflicts that are not amenable to treatment," he said. "This unfortunately is one of them. She'll end up going somewhere else, finding someone to give her what she needs. These patients are bound to repeat their mistakes."
  
  Dr. Sandeep Jauhar, director of the Heart Failure Program at Long Island Jewish Medical Center, is author of the new memoir "Intern: A Doctor's Initiation."
  
  
  
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• miss_lily 15 years ago said:
  Stand clear, something is about to blow.
  I looks like someone can no longer keep her stories straight. Yes, I also remember reading about her living in a trailer. So, now she's denying it?
  It was so quiet here for a few days and now Sexy has gone and stirred up the hornet nest. What shall we do. I, for one, am pulling up my lawn chair, with drink in hand, to watch the fireworks.
  Very entertaining.
  
  
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• sexyhotmama 15 years ago said:
  get ready..because now wynne thinks she can go around telling me what to do..I wasn't even going near her group and she starts with me for no reason at all ..read heat in the kitchen under hotsexymama..if that's not calling someone out for a fight, then i don't know what is.. i could see if i had posted something about it in her group, then she would have been justified to reprimand me..but i did nothing in that group! Some people..
  As for mystic...we shall see!And I'm glad to hear that I'm not the only one who read the trailer comment..thank God!!!
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• rml 15 years ago said:
  Sexyhotmama....
  honestly, your writing style is exactly like eeks/bnb/dj and mr.
  
  Please don't misunderstand....I love a good gossip, mystery, blow out....but dang!
  If you're going to stir.....try not to sound so much like, well....you know. Too much of a give away.!!!! At least keep us thinking/speculating. (We do have brains)
  
  Cooking and stirring and cooking....
  
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• sexyhotmama 15 years ago said:
  whatever... think what you like..
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• rml 15 years ago said:
  One more thing.....Wynne is my friend, along with about 414 other friends. She is a sweetheart and an Excellent Cook. You don't want to mess with her.
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• sexyhotmama 15 years ago said:
  I'll mess with whomever I like--just like you do. byebye
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• chefelaine 15 years ago said:
  Hi everyone. I am not new to GR, but am new to this group.
  
  I can FULLY understand what ou mean concerning a certain party.
  
  Very recently, I found it necessary to post this to her page:
  
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  I cannot help but wonder what YOUR next name will be.
  
  Knowing I told you I would no longer post here to you, I must retract on that considering the recent rash of lies you have been posting and emailing to my friends.
  
  You are one sad, sad individual, JM. Not only did I think you were a friend, but I did my level best to support you, and help upgrade your lowered ratings. I was not looking for any thanks, but I certainly was not expecting to finally learn what a user of people you are.
  Chefzilla was right, and in case you're interested, I posted an apology to her. I was a fool for not believing her warnings to me concerning you. But I am a fool no more.
  NO LONGER may you expect any support from me, JM.
  You may also rest assured that I am in NO contest to 'get to the top'. The ratings my friends gave me pushed me to the position where I now sit, as they were hoping to return me to the original fives I had.
  I don't care about being in first place. I know my cooking abilities, and contrary to your opinion, I am a Chef.
  And let's tell the truth, shall we> Admit you don't even know Paula Deen personally.
  
  The very games you have played and falsely accused me of playing are now coming back to haunt you.
  
  
  At least, thank you, for:
  1. revealing what a false friend you really are;
  2. removing my picture from your avatar.
  
  Have a pleasant day.
  
  She let out enough rope and literally hung herself on it when she posted to one of my friends that I was a group of new people who arrived here in order to upgrade recipes which had been purposely lowered in ratings.
  Little did she know, the recipient would expose her lies, and thankfully, did.
  
  Elaine
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• fuzzy 15 years ago said:
  Is THAT what's wrong with her???? Unbelieveable! So she really has this disease?
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• chefzilla 15 years ago said:
  Yes darlin.As pleclare said above "that woman is certifiable"!
  I do so agree with that.Zilla
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• chefelaine 15 years ago said:
  To Fuzzy , Pleclare, And ChefZilla:
  
  I wholeheartedly AGREE, MR is certifiable.
  
  She so 'friendly' when she wants something; once she has what she wants, she buggers the friendship, which was obviously NOT a real friendship in the first place.
  
  I feel like such a fool for having felt sorry for her the first place, after finding out what she really is, and YOU WERE RIGHT, ChefZilla.
  
  Thanks for accepting my apology to you.
  No longer will I EVER defend MR.
  
  At least my heart was in the right place... but my MIND wasn't.
  
  Mystic need not ever worry about receiving ANY support from me.
  you were 100% CORRECT.
  Elaine
  
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• dagnabbit 15 years ago said:
  Seems more and more people are discovering what Joyless Marie really is. Someone called her that recently, and I liked it. Along with that, she was named MUSTY RIVER! I like that too.
  
  But recently, Mountain HAG has really fallen off the bandwagon.
  She claims that she is now 'extending friendship to MR' after all that lowballing. She is still lowballing others. She is cursing a blue streak and is certainly no 'lady' by any means.
  
  I guess Mountain bag has lost so many friends that now she has to try sucking up to her enemies to have any conversation.
  
  What a pair of whackos.
  
  Pete
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