Someone Hates My Picture... Coffee Talk

suzalleogram 17 years ago said:

it was mysticriver7

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suzalleogram 17 years ago said:

oops- I mean Mystic_river1 = lame-o! I love you folks because you have a sense of humor! Thanks for being there for me through this devastating rejection- lol ; )

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suzalleogram 17 years ago said:

I changes the group's avatar to the one that 's created this "controversy" so you can all see what we're talking about. I will change it again very soon, don't worry!

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rml 17 years ago said:

Honestly, I thought your avatar was creative and appropriate for a cooking site, although I'm now swearing off all sweets, butter, potato chips and anything not containing tofu!
I thought OGM's avatar was a bit more controvercial...again, what does the "F" stand for? I have a pretty good idea after she deleted her recipes and friends. I guess having the word "OFF" under the "F" would have been too obvious.
Your new avatar is sufficiently boring (no offense).
You have a great sense of humor and the "Zippy Lady" as I refer to her, made me smile.
I don't think anybody understands mine...I must be the oldest person on the site. I used to watch the Honeymooners all the time...Loved Jackie Gleason (acting and drinking his Scotch...classic). To the Moon Alice!
P.S. Controversy can be fun!

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rml 17 years ago said:

If you page down to "What's Up" in this Group, there are a few explanations for her departure.
Personally, I received a lower rate on one of my recipes and now I feel like I'm truly part of the group! I'm a Navy wife and you have to have thick skin to survive the Military spouse life. You aren't truly accepted into a group until someone has the kahoonas to criticize you, then they have to improve their game.

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crystalwaters 17 years ago said:

... personally I like your avatar so much that I saved it as a jpg file and am gonna email it to my folks ... I remember (too well lol) the Honeymooners, and LOVED the show! Classic TV ... you can't beat it. Nothing on today comes close to comparing to the old comedies ...

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wynnebaer 17 years ago said:

I was wondering where you got the picture of me for your old avatar.....I loved it...;D

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coffeebean53 17 years ago said:

rml your avatar is great it goes along with the era of I Love Lucy and all the great programs they had then.

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momto4 17 years ago said:

suz I must have missed the picture that the controversy was about....either that or because I can't read the typed print on the group pic i don/t get it...please enlighten me!

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sparow64 17 years ago said:

I recently received a "lower than usual" rate on one of my recipes, too! Guess I have been initiated now! WHOOPEEE! I'm one of the gang now! (gang NOT meant in the negative terms of today, but, as in a group of friends..."gonna go out with the gang tonight"). Anyway...it's a little surprising when you see a low rating on something you have cooked for almost 30 years, that everyone you know loves and requests often...but hey, to each his own. We don't all have the same tastes, likes, or dislikes, so I guess it's to be expected! And I thought of something regarding low ratings...when you first sign up, it tells you to be sure and "rate" recipes so the "robot" can learn what you do and don't like...so, maybe some of these low ratings are not meant to be insulting, but just people marking their personal preferences for that reason? The world may never know... : @ ) I just enjoy seeing all these recipes, getting ideas, and most of all the friendships that we are establishing!

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pleclare 17 years ago said:

Bravo,Sparow. I agree completely.

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crystalwaters 17 years ago said:

I agree with you too, Sparow. Your avatar makes me grin every time I glimpse it, btw ... brings back memories from waaaaaay back lol! ;-)

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mystic_river1 17 years ago said:

Kris says we have to ask the originator of the group to be removed from it. OM is the originator according to you and you, Suz are OM , along with about 10 other alter-ego names.,so please be courteous enough to remove my (lame-o )name.
Go ahead and low-ball me..just a number that I don't care about. I have enough in my life to care about and care for..I am here for friends, recipes and to post mine.
I pray for you every nite that someday you will realize that when you try to hurt people you only hurt yourself. Good luck to you and your AKAs.
Please remove me...thank you.

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linebb956 17 years ago said:

U can ask Kris to be removed... I did on the private ones. send a private email to him and he will do it.

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crystalwaters 17 years ago said:

His email is lab@grouprecipes.com

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mystic_river1 17 years ago said:

thank you I did

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chezzane 17 years ago said:

i would like to know,was that for your current avatar ?

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chezzane 17 years ago said:

i dont think it was THAT bad!!lol! drama over an avatar,why should anybody have a prob with dat?funny! women are difficult to understand-is my ultimate verdict!!:D
lol

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suzalleogram 17 years ago said:

no, not the current avatar- it was really much more rude- a big fat woman wearing a tube top trying to zip up her jeans, and her stomach is hanging out. a lot of us thought it was funny, but some people can't take a joke as well as we can ; )

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suzalleogram 17 years ago said:

I posted it as this group's avatar, but it keeps getting taken down. I guess I've stirred the pot then- oops!

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chezzane 17 years ago said:

oh yeah! i remember babe !-i liked it,and ofcourse thought it was funny!
dont take that seriously,just forget her! infact i think you should get back that avatar!
DONT YOU ALL THINK SO FRIENDS! ;D

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sparow64 17 years ago said:

I got a kick out of the avatar, kind of felt that way myself after the holidays, and didn't think any harm was intended by suz, but, remember, most of us don't have a clue what the others look like. I, personally, am more than 100 pounds overweight (which, of course is no one's fault but my own), and it is very likely that there are several more of our foodies here that are either in that same boat, or maybe even more overweight than that. Obesity is rampant. I feel like I am not far from the size of the woman in the avatar, and although I probably am one, it sometimes hurts to be referred to as a big, fat woman, and to feel like others are laughing. (I do hope I have more taste than to dress in a tube top and skin tight jeans, though...LOL). Just keep in mind that there are those out there who are likely more sensitive to that than others, and might be hurt, albeit unintentionally on the part of the person posting the photo. (On the other hand, with an international site, it would be impossible to consider every conceivable hurt that each picture might invoke! ).

We're just all here to have fun, anyway! So, don't sweat the small stuff...there are more than enough troubles of real consequence to be upset over.

Happy chatting, recipe hunting and swapping to all of you!
Cheers!

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mystic_river1 17 years ago said:

Has nothing to do with weight for me as you can see from my picture. It had to do with the fact that the zipper was down too far...it degraded the woman. So her tummy is big but if she was clothed, no problem.....and that it would be offensive to some. I am sensitive to the fact that I am short and get many remarks about it. DONT YOU WORRY LITTLE BIRD....size and shape don't matter. Kindness and sensitivity do.

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chezzane 17 years ago said:

but that isn't a good reason to drop Suz out of her friends list

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momto4 17 years ago said:

Maybe someone thinks it is a self portrait!! LOL !!

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suzalleogram 17 years ago said:

sparow- I really hadn't thought of it that way. I have struggled with weight issues- mostly just the body image issues a lot of women are faced with these days-but I have not been really overweight ever. I am usually the person who considers all those things- my intent was that I saw a hilarious picture that was pretty rude, but not totally inappropriate to put up as my avatar when after the holidays, I've probably only gained 10 lbs but feel like the woman in the picture. I have a very healthy sense of humor, and I didn't even think of it that way. I am sorry if I hurt anyone's feelings. The picture is funny though- and I will still be changing my avatar often ; ) Maybe I will post my real picture- I am kinda cute though, + I don't want anyone to bug me- already taken, lol
~sue

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mystic_river1 17 years ago said:

chezzane
I really did not and do not think you have any jurisdiction to judge whether or not MY reason for dropping Suz is good or bad. But you keep asking to be my friend and I keep rejecting the offer. I, and I alone will judge who I want as a friend. We are here to SHARE recipes. Do you have any to share ? Your last statement Suz(and many others you make) sound a lot like OM.
interesting
could it be?
hmmmmmm

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suzalleogram 17 years ago said:

MysticRiver
I don't know how to remove you from the group, and if you want to be removed from the group, why are you still commenting? You certainly seem to be basking in the controversy. I think you like to stir the pot, and that's why you posted that comment on my page.
chezzane
I was just a little taken aback by being removed from someone's friend list- honestly, when I got the invite from mysticriver7 I almost rejected it simply because of the extraneous God references on her page (and I haven't rejected ANYBODY yet who's asked to be my friend.) I am not the type to reject- even though I had second thoughts about accepting this particular one. I've got nothing against God or people who love God. This is a weird and sometimes scary or devastating kind of experience to be alive, and I commend people for finding their peace with it through religion or philosophy. I just get annoyed when people stick it in your face like they have a holy finger. I should have trusted my instincts.
I am just here to be on a food website. I like to share recipes, change my avatar often and have a good sense of humor. I don't want to create controversy, but since our site is international, as sparow pointed out, it would be difficult to work around each person's sensitivities. I have to deal with enough b.s. at work, so when I get to be home, I want to enjoy myself, not bicker about a picture or anything like that. I try not to be too self-important, but I am a human and I fail sometimes, well, a lot. Last time I checked we all do ; )

I was trying not to respond about this, but since there was so much chatter about it and STILL IS, I think I had to. This is my opinion. Other people have left their opinions, and have even schooled us on how we should be acting.

p.s. I am not o-mama, but she was my favorite foodie and I miss her.

~sue

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suzalleogram 17 years ago said:

I find this little tidbit to be humorous, because life is just sometimes funny that way, so I thought I'd share.

When I started this chat, I didn't happen to check to see if MysticRiver was in this group!! I really didn't think she was, and I was just sharing my experience & wanted to see what other people thought of the incident and my former avatar. If I had bothered to look (wish I did) I probably would have left out the name of who insulted my picture. My intentions were not to start up this silliness. In hindsight, I shouldn't have been so quick to react, but I was a little confused and insulted at the time.

I just think that's kind of funny, but not in the laugh out loud sort of way.

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tnacndn 17 years ago said:

I am a child of God also and proud of it. I will NOT deny my Lord.

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mystic_river1 17 years ago said:

yes..you named me...if you don't like my references to God...I really don't care as I will reference Him ...... You didnt think I was in this group...it states everyone who is on your site........so just don't go on my food page...it bothers me to see you have even been there. I still come here to watch my back.
I insulted your insulting picture!
Well, if my page insults you because you reject God and say I am shoving Him in your face...how about the insulting pictures you shove in my face..that's what this started as.
You shoving that revolting picture in my face!
Kris said he would remove me and I will ask him again..he is very busy.
Be careful God doesn't reject you.Thanks tnacndn GOD loves you! I will not come here anymore so say what you will.

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suzalleogram 17 years ago said:

God doesn't reject people- I'm safe ; )

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pleclare 17 years ago said:

God myay not but we can. Not sure what your game is but don't like it!!!

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momto4 17 years ago said:

PEOPLE PLEASE!!! I can't believe that some of you are being hurt over this! I believe in God and I also believe that HE is the one that gave us our sense of humors and love of food, chat and meeting people. He also gave us our individual personalities! ...SO.....if you find something offensive then don't look at it or read it but don't slam it because others might think it is funny. I find a lot of things funny ...like my new avatar! Jimmie fans may not think it is funny, then they don't have to look at it. Tony probably would find it very funny!! Boy I wish I had of seen it! Must have been quite the pic! HEY!?!?!? suz is that a photo of me??? Were you peeking??? Ha! Ha! Let's get back to having fun!!

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mrtnzangel8 17 years ago said:

If you really wanna see the pic then ask Suz to post it on her page under her main avatar..which is probably what she should have done in the first place, IMO.
If she was dropped from a friend's list .. maybe there are other reasons behind it. I personally believe it was more than just the avatar.

Nuff said.

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divaliscious 17 years ago said:

wow - and ouch! I knew I was missing something as I was reading some 'stuff' in another group - Can't we all get along? - lol

as 'DIvaliscious' would say Oh Meow! rofl - avatars are not my issue - put up what you want - yeesh - not trying to stir the pot here, it's obviously been over-boiled though - so on to a new subject.

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linebb956 17 years ago said:

Diva.. your gonna get in trouble! LOL

I was just thinking of putting a pic of me in a tutu! Now that might be a bit much! Brahahaha!

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mrtnzangel8 17 years ago said:

A pic of you in a tutu.....I wanna see that!

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linebb956 17 years ago said:

I was 4! Gotcha! Sucker

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knoxcop 17 years ago said:

I'm a little bit confused...(not unusual.) But let me see, so if you should "drop" someone from your "friends" list, they get notified of that? Like, they get a note or something telling them you've dropped them?

I've never rejected anyone, never dropped anyone.

--Kn0x--

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divaliscious 17 years ago said:

Knoxcop - Ive dropped eggs, but never here at grouprecipes.com - lol and yes linebb - I should keep mum or else I will get in trouble..I love all the people here and out there in group land - you all have such great attitudes, recipes and good humor

I was just so shocked by some of the comments here -hehehe and after 2 glasses of wine I found it simply hilarious -

well now I am going for my second cup of coffee - mmm chocolate hazelnut - with frothy milk topping - come on over and get your caffeine on!

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pleclare 17 years ago said:

I'll join you KnOx in the coffee,sounds yummy!!

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linebb956 17 years ago said:

NO... I got dropped and did not notice until someone else told me.

I have gone and dropped some... BUT ONLY because they were not on here any longer. I find the dropping thing kind of like Jr High...

Knox.. we all have our moments of confusion .. I think you less than me! LOL

Diva.. I know U meant no harm, and was teasing with you!

Now will you share that coffee?

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notyourmomma 17 years ago said:

I think we need to leave the coffee and go out for cocktails at this time of day, care to chat over drinks?

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divaliscious 17 years ago said:

but first I got to put the rich biscuit topping on my chickenpot pie - heck that can wait!

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notyourmomma 17 years ago said:

Oh, are you making the biscuit topping yourself, Diva? Do share the recipe.

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linebb956 17 years ago said:

Drinks... ???? What we serving? I found a great one Henrie posted ... a Flordia.. but she did not call it that in the name.... dang... She said I could have it on Monday! Did not have to wait for the week-end. I am now wanting Bloody Marys.. or the Cuban one with the mint and rum.... Yummmmmmy

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linebb956 17 years ago said:

Mojotos... yeah.. that is it...

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linebb956 17 years ago said:

Crap.. U mention drinks.. and I go off... it was pleclare... and the drink was called a "Orange Blossom"... there I am gone..

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notyourmomma 17 years ago said:

Where is the orange blossom? Did she post it? Mojitos are fun, but then I'm a sucker for the citrus stuff!

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linebb956 17 years ago said:

Here it is.... so good!

http://www.grouprecipes.com/44142/orange-blossom.html

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notyourmomma 17 years ago said:

Linda, thanks for the link. I'll go visit it now!! You are a pal.

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pleclare 17 years ago said:

Yes,I posted Orange Blossom! Masters of Mixology..

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wisdonwish 17 years ago said:

Thanks for that link. Great drink.

Is there a rule for the avatars? I would think not at least I did not see a notice or flag when I put one in.

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linebb956 17 years ago said:

No wisdonwish.. there are no rules.

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notyourmomma 17 years ago said:

Orange blossom is top notch! Very enjoyable. I do like my citrus flavored stuff the best. Lemon drops are killer too.

Avatars change around here as quickly as the weather. You'll need a scorecard to keep up. Just don't drnk and pst.

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mrtnzangel8 17 years ago said:

Drink and post...egads! Who would do that? Better get the site police on it!

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linebb956 17 years ago said:

Oh crap... the AVATAR POLICE... there in house? Let me see if I can find that thong!

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linebb956 17 years ago said:

Is that their.. or there? I keep getting those mixed up!

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mrtnzangel8 17 years ago said:

they're...as in they are

I've got that same problem too linda.....always have to stop and think make sure I have the right one...LOL

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