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  • One of the most wonderful things about having a positive attitude is the number of people it touches, many times in ways you'll never know. shopping list
  • Recently, I stopped by a convenience store to get a newspaper and a pack of gum. The young woman at the check-out counter said, "That'll be five dollars please," and as I reached into my wallet, the thought occurred to me that a newspaper and gum didn't quite make it to five dollars. When I looked up to get a "re-quote", she had a big smile on her face and said, "Gotcha! I got to get my tip in there somehow!" I laughed when I knew I'd been had. She then glanced down at the paper I was buying and said, "I'm sick and tired of all this negative stuff on the front pages. I want to read some good news for a change." She then said, "In fact, I think someone should just publish a Good News newspaper -a paper with wonderful, inspirational stories about people overcoming adversity and doing good things for others. I'd buy one every day!" She then thanked me for coming in and said, "Maybe we'll get lucky tomorrow; maybe we'll get some good news," and she laughed. She made my day. shopping list
  • The following day after my business appointments, I dropped by the same store again to pick up bottled water, but a different young lady was behind the counter. As I checked out I said, "Good afternoon" and handed her my money for the water. She said nothing – not a word, not a smile...nothing. She just handed me my change and in a negative tone, ordered..."Next!" shopping list
  • It hit me right between the eyes: Two people, same age; one made me feel great, and the other, well, made me feel that I had inconvenienced her by showing up. shopping list
  • By the choices we make, by the attitudes we exhibit, we are influencing lives every day in positive or negative ways...our family, our peers, our friends, and even strangers we've never met before and will never meet again. shopping list
  • So when you brush your teeth every morning, and get ready for work, ask yourself this important question, "Who do I want to be today?" "The Grouch" or "The Good News Girl?" Your answer will go a long way toward determining your success in business and in life. shopping list

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    bakermel ate it and said...
    I love this---TY, Henrie :)
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    notyourmomma ate it and said...
    Thanks, Henrie. I'm copying this and taking it into work on Tuesday and hand it to my boss. We have need of some positive input with all the lay-offs and discouraged downbeat stuff that has happened lately. Perhaps this will be just the jumpstart the office needs.
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    zanna ate it and said...
    POVITIVILY A GREAT POST.hAVE A GREAT WEEKEND:)
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    mumtazcatering ate it and said...
    THANKS HENRIE FOR REMINDING US OF WHAT POSITIVE ATTITUDE CAN ACCOMPLISH NOT ONLY TO THE GIVER BUT TO THE RECEIVER........AND IT COST EITHER PERSON NOTHING{ MONETARY .......THAT IS }
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  • mbalmr 16 years ago
    What I can't quite understand is why it's so hard for many people to refrain from being rude or exhibiting negative attitudes. I've had my share of bad days, but I am smart enough to recognize that it's not the customer's fault, for example.

    You know, even when you're as cranky as you ever get, if you smile at others and just be nice, your whole demeanor changes for the better. It's not always easy to do, but it works.
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    auntybea ate it and said...
    Henrie, the affect of your story for me is two-fold: first, it certainly does reinforce the importance of positive communication and interaction in our everyday lives and second, it helps restore my faith in Generation X! Thank you! X0
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    jenniferbyrdez ate it and said...
    Love this. Thank you Henrie.
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    shirleyoma ate it and said...
    Wonderful! Love a positive attitude!! Great post, got my 5
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    bluewaterandsand ate it and said...
    I so agree with this, Henrie. When we had the resturant, bad attitude people would come in and be so darn rude. I would smile and ask them, now do you feel better after that rude remark and I would smile, and so would they.I made many laugh. Thanks for the great post!
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    pink ate it and said...
    Triple *wink*...Great!
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    minitindel ate it and said...
    oh so true i see it every day in my work
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    lunasea ate it and said...
    Perfectly said...and something to remember. Thanks, m'dear!
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  • raelene1951 16 years ago
    Thanks Henrie! My day will be brighter.
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    chefmeow ate it and said...
    Very well said.
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    sparow64 ate it and said...
    Thanks, Henrie. You never know what others are going through. There have been times that a smile and kind word from a stranger made my day, and times that their harsh words was the straw that broke the camel's back. Smiles and frowns are both contagious. We should remember to spread smiles more often!
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    suzalleogram ate it and said...
    Very true...thanks for the reminder. I bet my day will be better now :)
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